Changing Your Life in 2012
We are almost coming to the end of January in the new year of 2012, and if you are like me you’ve probably thought about how you want to make changes in your life this year 
Maybe you want to finally commit to exercise or getting healthy we all need to look our best 24/7 it’s part of the job and plus if you look good you feel good!
Maybe you want to find your passion or purpose in life, everyone is different in dealing with things, we all make mistakes, but also life is about taking a chance some times things work out for the better and sometimes they don’t but my motto is, it is always best to have tried than not to have tried at all.
Maybe you want to simply find self confidence, or improve a relationship etc so much goes on in each and everyone’s life and life is so precious and so short so make the most of what life offers you, be it in your personal life or work life – live life to the full and enjoy all that it has to offer
Transform Your Life
Over the years I have come to believe that life is about choices…. and the choices you make eventually shape your day shape your views, shape your experiences, shape your thoughts and your life
There are some life choices over which you have no control or which others will make for you – like when and where you are born be it in any part of the UK North South East or West, or even abroad and the family you are born in to and we all know the nightmare’s family’s can bring after all we are all human and we don’t always like the cards we are dealt
Again your life during childhood the school you went to the kids you where allowed to play with etc, etc
Beyond that, there are several other important choices that you make in life. In this blog you will see what I consider to be some of the most significant choices which have the potential to transform your life I know they changed mine….
1. You are your own person ( This allowed me to make the choice for a big move away )
2. Yes family’s are important ( But they don’t own the right to your life and the choices you make)
3. Paying Bills ( You can have the best friends in the world & family but they don’t pay your bills a valuable lesson for anyone to learn & know…..
4. The choice of work we choose (Interesting this one, from being a small girl and being involved in the family business I always new I liked a challenge, I was brought up that way with grandparents and parents with that mind set.
I always took business very seriously and have done many things before going into the Adult Industry… and that started with me going on a 8 weeks course for Modelling which I did for a laugh to piss off a school sweetheart which in the end backed fired on him, we still speak today and that’s sweet lol but I am so glad I did not take the root 2 kids the house the car & the husband …. personal choices
Had I of not made that choice I may have not known all the wonderful people I know to day from around the world that I have met over the years
So it’s good to get to the point in your life when you number 1 comes first by making up your own mind and your own decisions and not letting others make them for you, that way if you make mistakes you only have yourself to blame…. But when you do make a mistake as we all do… learn from it and move on
Jess xx
